Apna khayal rakhna

 #debsaristories No filters, No edits, No fake backdrops. It's pure me today! Tadaaa! Oh! How i missed the crisp fresh air! ❣❣Do what makes you happy! ❣❣ Its my "I am feeling low and I really need to cheer up" day today. Log gham bhoolne ke liye daru ka adda jaate and gulp a baatli, I go to my closet and pull a saree! I get the same effects, I am high, I forget my worries, I "feel on top of the world". Ok gals, shortcut banane se pehle, you should have taught me better! I saw theme as #AMUAN . Believe me, I thought that was the name of a hurricane or tornado, and Googled for the word. Found nothing. Checked trending news sites yet found nothing, I checked everywhere and was wondering what on earth is it and I decided I can't do the theme.🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Later I was humming the "aaj mein upar..." song. You know (well actually I don't know) how the brain somehow magically remembers something although you weren't even trying ? Yup that's what happened and lo eureka my bulb jala, that the full form of AMUAN is actually from the song! Oh. My introspection today was around validation! 

 🌞 "Free" or "Giveaway" always doesn't mean poor quality. 

🌞 Not being old enough doesn't mean you are not mature enough to do amazing work I am a witness of my bettu's dance class. Although he doesn't charge anything the effort and quality he brings to his workshops are truly professional level. But people write him off! "Bacha hi to hai" 

 🌞 Education and Forward Thinking aren't same . Not all educated people have broad minded thinking and vice versa. You simply can't assume! For all that matters the multiple Masters N PhD holder might have taboo of Black cat crossing, or eating leftovers or treating people as untouchable! You know what I mean?  

🌞 Professional experience and certification! OMG i can't even explain this. I can't speak for other industries but in IT many are savvy about certification. I love the intent of improving your knowledge and bring able to apply at work to improve productivity and enable better business. You will be amazed (shocked?) That its not the case. I have come across so many with a kite load of suffixes but struggle to solve simple problems, lack maturity of thought, can't keep cool, unable to show creativity and most importantly can't figure out the way to make things better. Ab bolo.. what's the use of "earning degrees " if you can't use them in need. This is like buying a set of blunt knives that can cut nothing! 

You can do best only when your body, mind and spirit are healthy not just one or the other! If you need time to rejuvenate and recover, you must. Dont ignore your minds voice and succumb to stress. Take time to step back, think through, do something different that diverts you from the problem, so you can think about it from outside perspective. Thats when you can make good judgments leading to sensible and thought through decision! There was a horse grazing in the meadow behind me. It kept staring at me. Perhaps it thought, grass was greener on the other side of the road (errr fence). Acha hua it dint jump on me! It would have been disappointed.. ghaas nahi, maas
nahi, sirf haddi hi haddi hai!